Sunday, October 30, 2011
It has been a very up and down weekend. On Saturday we had the JA connect day in Tampa, which Logan helped plan. He did a great job, with help from Rochelle and the Arthritis Foundation. We are so very proud of Logan and all he did to make this day so great. He is such a great big brother.
The day started on such a high note and well, life with JRA has a way of changing things. Parker has been having a very difficult couple of weeks and hit rock bottom on Saturday. One of his doctors was at the connect day and said we needed to take him in, to Shands in Gainesville. So when we got home, we packed Parker a bag, and Rochelle packed, and they were off. Not knowing how long they will be there, or what to expect, this is what we have become accustomed to. Of course the usual to start, blood work, which came back fine, so we have that going for us. X-rays of chest, knees, ankles, and back. Still waiting to hear about those. Now waiting on MRI's. Doctors told Rochelle it could be something in addition to Arthritis. Really! Like Parker doesn't have enough to deal with. This JRA thing is just not fair.
Rochelle is so strong and such a wonderful mother, she is always there for her boys. I wish she (us, Logan, and of course Parker) did not have to deal with this. It is so hard to explain to people what we (mostly Parker) are going through. They see Parker and they do not see the pain he goes through every day, hour, minute. People do not know the "show" he puts on because he wants to be treated normal and make people feel good. He wants to be like his friends, go to school, play, etc. We (as a family) are now part of this" club", JRA, and not by choice. Most people don't get it, and never will, get what we go through every day, but the "club” members do and their support is amazing. I truly thank all of you. I am not saying all don't get it. I am merely saying not enough people understand JRA. Which brings me back to Logan. What he did this past Saturday, JA Connect day, was such a special event. He worked on this event for 2 months and it was such a successful event.
We now wait to hear what is next for Parker. As hard as this is for him, it is just as hard for Rochelle. As stated, she is so strong and I love her so much. She is such a wonderful person. So keep Parker in your thoughts. Know that he has his mother, Rochelle one of best humans I know, with him.
Sunday, October 9, 2011
We try to desperately believe that things will get better. We constantly pray for healing, strength, and relief. We continually marvel at the strength of our family. We pause to celebrate the little things that bind us to each other and appreciate the support of those who care about us. Our hope is vast…but today is today…and in this moment, we are struggling to make huge decisions all while we continue on.
|Parker's Port on Day 4, healing nicely.|
His port is in and functioning well. However, his body would not behave normally for this either. The surgeon could not find a good vessel in his chest, so he had to go in his neck, therefore his port is subclavical (higher than normal). And the surgeon also noted that he bruised more than normal. He has some issues with how his blood pools and is bruising pretty easily. When he came out of his surgery, he reported that his pain was at a 6. Now let me clarify a bit. He was a 10 at his joints, 6 at his surgical site. And even when all his local anesthetics and anesthesia wore off, it never got above an 8. Initially this totally excited me because he hasn’t reported his pain level below a 10 for about a year now. He says it’s a 10-, 10, or 10+ every day. But then as this sank in, my husband and I realized that Parker is in pretty significant pain daily. So, we are incredibly proud of his perseverance, resilience, enthusiasm, and persistence.
Parker had a good friend over last night. They had such a good time. They played video games and chatted and watched movies. When he left though, Parker hit rock bottom. He slept all afternoon. Yet another reminder of the energy that is lacking, despite how hard he tries.
|Thanks Mina for visiting Parker in the Infusion Room.|
Parker had fun playing a joke on the doc and nurses.
He said he was tired of all the attempts to get his IVs started
(thus the headband with syringe), so he decided to get a port.
So, Friday was Parker’s infusion treatment and doc appointment. We got news that his muscle enzymes have been off since his hospital stay in July. We were asked how we felt about the treatment he has been on for 6 months now. I feel like we have some big decisions to make again. I am not ready to give up on Actemra yet, as it is the only thing that has even touched this horrible disease. But as I was reminded about his pericardial effusion, elevated enzymes, pluersy, and now his stomach, I felt like someone was punching ME in the stomach. This is all VERY REAL…and I keep trying to be optimistic and yet there seems to always be some new battle to buck up and fight. Parker is now considering joint injections. We will see… Parker asked lots of questions this last visit and has been processing a lot this weekend. We all have.
|Beautiful tile mural on the 4th floor of Shands Hospital!|