Showing posts with label JRA. Show all posts
Showing posts with label JRA. Show all posts

Saturday, September 17, 2016

Do You Know What I Want? What I Really Really Want?


I rarely say what I want…I am more about helping and doing for others.  So, yesterday I was debating on if I should dare to really ask all my friends and family what I really “want”.  As I was thinking about if I should, Michael changed the station on the radio and the music blared out “I’ll tell you what I want, what I really really want…”  I am taking that as a sign.


What I really really want is for the world to know that kids can get arthritis (not like Grandma’s osteoarthritis…you know, the really bad auto inflammatory kind) and I wish there was a public service announcement, so everyone was really aware.  But since there is no PSA…maybe Parker’s PhRma Research and Hope Award video could act as a PSA if everyone got on board and helped it go viral.  He said what many families who are enduring juvenile arthritis want the world to know.  So…what I really really want is for all of you to share with everyone you know this short YouTube video in hopes that it will go viral and JA will finally have a voice. 




With a grateful heart,

Rochelle (Parker’s mom)

Monday, May 25, 2015

Living in the Moment…

We really try to live in the moment…yes, sounds cliché but it is true.  We’ve learned that living in the here and now is much easier than looking too far into the future of what’s to come.    And we put much faith in believing that we are doing the best we can with each moment…and that is all we can do.

We are rounding up the end of the school year.  Logan has been done for several weeks.  He graduates from high school with an AA because he did early admission into college his senior year.   He received one scholarship and is waiting on several others.  This fall, he will start his junior year at the University of Florida, as he moves towards his dream of becoming a pediatric rheumatologist.    We are incredibly proud of him and we are packing in as much fun as possible, with our grown-up kiddo,this summer.

Parker has missed much school this year because of his chronic illness, the pain it causes, and because of the major reconstructive surgery he endured.  He’s been going back to school part days as much as possible.  He is only two weeks away from the last day of school; and he is still unsure if he will be able to proceed to the 10th grade.  This is causing him much stress even though we are stressing to him that he can only do his very best and we will support him moving forward no matter what happens.  As much as we try to explain to him that his health had to be taken care of first, it is very hard for a 15 year old to watch his peers move forward over and over…often leaving him behind (in many ways).  In the big scheme of life, we all know that his health is his “life”…but oh how it hurts our hearts  to know that he knows that his friends go “out on the town”, have dates, go to all kinds of fun events, play sports, drive cars, and do all kinds of fun “teen things”.

So we try to focus on the JOYS…Yes, Parker went through a very intense surgery on his legs, feet and ankles and it was way tough beyond words…but now he is walking and he is aligned and his pain in his feet and ankles have gone from a daily 10 plus, down to a 6.  And he doesn’t need his wheelchair much at all.  He even walked across the finish line at the walk, only 2 months after surgery.  And…Parker and Logan made their walk fundraising goal and raise over $10,000 with nearly $13,000 raised this year.

Some of you know, Parker has struggled with some heart issues.  His blood pressure is running low and his heart rate is running really high (even when at rest).  We have been working with all many of his specialists, along with is primary doc.  In fact, his primary doc has felt that he is so complicated that she would like him to see someone with more expertise coordinating multiple health issues.  So she has sent all his records to a pediatric critical chronic care specialist at our local hospital and we are waiting to get him in.  We have done our very best to try and get him the help he needs without the trauma of a hospital stay.  And the last month has been way intense with lots of tests and specialty visits. 

We have been working closely with his pediatric cardiologist and he really feels that this last surgery triggered his autonomic system to go haywire.  And although he sees this more often in teen females, he has seen this happen in a few others after surgery on limbs.  He feels that Parker has autonomic dysfunction or POTS.  His heart rate actually went over 200 right in the doctor’s office during his EKG…  The cardiologist said the heart monitor he wore confirmed his concerns and since then, he has worsened.  He is also having some GI issues, trouble swallowing, difficulty urinating, and sweats/chills.  So, we are trying to control the symptoms, while we try to figure out what hospital to take him to.  There are only a few in the US that deal with this. He said the wait time is usually 2-4 months to even get in and he will be there a minimum of 5 days.  Our choices are Mayo Clinic-Rochester, Cleveland Clinic, Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia, and NYU.  Vandy has one too but they really only treat adults.  So in the next 2 weeks, we are trying a few things and researching to figure out, given all his issues, which hospital would be the best.

In addition, we have been working on approval for 2 surgical procedures that he hopes to have this summer so that it doesn’t interfere with school.    One procedure is neck nerve ablations and the other is insertion of a nerve stimulator in his back for a trial.  The cardiologist feels that he can proceed with these procedures, but I have to admit, I do have my reservations.  But Parker has a ton of HOPE with what these procedures could do to alleviate his pain.  He dreams of getting off of pain meds and learning to drive.

On a joyful note, Parker's papallidemia is healed and so no more pressure on his optic nerves and they are almost completely restored.  This also means that the psuedo tumor is likely healed too!  Thank God!

Also, we are celebrating that Parker was nominated by his school for the Prudential Presidential Community Service Award and he won this year.  It was a complete surprise and he walked to the stage, in front of his cheering peers, to receive this amazing recognition that only the top 10% in the nation receive for their service.    

He is also thrilled that he got into Camp Boggy Creek for a week at summer camp.  This camp is really special to him and he really feels it is his heaven on earth.  This year, Michael’s work has a promotional fundraiser to send kids to camp too…I just love that they see the benefit of this amazing camp and what it does for kids with serious illness so that they can enjoy some serious fun!  We hope all of you have some serious fun planned this summer.


Wednesday, March 18, 2015

Entering Back Into the Real World: A Quick Update on Parker


Since Parker’s surgery, on March 2, on his legs, ankles, and feet, it is officially confirmed that Parker is OUR HERO and absolutely stronger than he ever thought he could be.   Tomorrow will be his first outing out of the house and we will be going to the doc to get his casts on.  Once the casts are on, then he can go back to school.  So, he is going to try go back on Friday to take the state writing test; since the deadline is Friday.

He is progressing but definitely has a very long way to go.  Last night was the first night that he didn't call over the “walkie talkie” for help.  Michael had a meeting with his pain management doctor yesterday morning and conference called me in on the phone and we are adjusting Parker’s meds to hopefully help him out.  The struggle has been the shooting pain, some minor bleeding at the pin-sites, numbness, and muscle cramps.  And even though he had a fever yesterday, we think it was more JA related than surgical…so we are incredibly thankful that there hasn't been infection.

We will try to update more this weekend.  For now, we thank everyone for the out-pour of love and we ask that all of you please either sign-up to walk with us on May 2 (it’s free to register) and/or please consider making a donation in honor of Parker and Logan.  Click here to get to the walk page.  Time has slipped away from us and the walk is just over a month away; so we need to get our team together very soon so we can make our shirt order.  We are forever grateful!

Much love,

The Lentini Family

P.S.  There is one more picture below so if you are skirmish and don't want to see a bruised up foot and a pin poking out, don't scroll down .





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Monday, December 29, 2014

A Balance of Hope and Love

Some days, LOVE takes my breath away…We feel deeply grateful to have love in our lives. Somehow, I feel living with chronic illness makes love oh so much richer.  I have not written much lately, I have been deep in reflection and realization…living life and appreciating its gifts.

Our family lives in constant hope.  Hope that we will see gains and improvement.  In many ways we are constantly pushing forward with hope as our shield.  And when we dare to lower that shield, we still hold hope in our hearts; because with hope, we grow with the possibilities.  If we didn’t believe in possibilities, how could we endure?

And yet, I must acknowledge our reality…everything we do, we plan, we celebrate…we do with much balance; for we know that there is a cost.  I think this is the most remarkable strength that Parker has, but with that balancing act, he has to decide what to say yes to and what he will do to make his “yes” a reality.  Let me give you a for instance…Parker wanted nothing more than to spend time with one of his cousins who was home for the holidays.  But in order to do so, he literally slept all day so that he could see him in the evening.  He has to bank his energy, power up in a sense, so that he can sit up in the evening to play games at a table.  He knows his capacity and he must allow for it accordingly. 

Much has happened since I last updated and once again, we are processing our choices and next steps.  The pseudo tumor and papilledema is still there but improved and holding stable.  He is still getting treatment.  We are hopeful because his vision is better. 

JA has been unkind to Parker's mouth...he had the last of 8 baby teeth extracted.  Now we wait for them to start coming in before going back to the orthodontist.  I am a little afraid to see the next bill with invisaline.

After winter break, we need to set up an appointment with the orthopedic doc to talk about what we are going to do about Parker’s left ankle.  And recently, his pulmonology test showed that he needs a bit more pressure to help him breathe at night but that was easily amended on his bi-pap machine.  Finally, he is going to need to start gait training in physical therapy.  However, now that he is “aware” that his walking is out of whack, he is paying more attention to walking.

On most days, Parker is walking better and his doc would be so happy to see him swinging his arms in the halls of his school.  See he had to learn to “walk correctly”.  He is making school about 50-60% of the week and we are so grateful that his teachers are working with him.  This is the hugest success ever for him and incredibly draining.  He is beginning to make new friends at school.  For Michael and I, this is the most joyful thing we have experienced in a very long time.  It was so incredibly hard to see his friends continue on to the 10th grade and for him to re-enter school after taking a year off for his health and go back into the 9th. 

The coolest thing happened last week.  Parker had one of his friends over for a few of hours.  That alone was the highlight of his break…but when the mom came to pick him up, she looked at Parker and noticed how much shorter he was than her son.  She asked if they were in the same grade.  Of course, they were not anymore because his friend went on to 10th and he was in 9th…I said it was due to medical that he was held back  but they are the same age, thinking she must know about Parker’s JA…but she looked confused.  I said, oh, I am sure your son can catch you up to speed when you get home.  But in that moment, I was completely overjoyed…I wanted to yell…”Do you know you have the coolest son ever!  Do you know that he is the definition of a true friend?  Do you know that he sees my son for the cool kid that he is and the fact that you don’t even know that my son has major health issues is the best gift I could have received this year?!”  I knew that this friend of Parker’s was pretty amazing…but I love this mom for raising her boy to see “people”.



So we did try the growth hormone for Parker.  It was a daily shot and with each day he injected it, the worse and worse his JA got.  He got rashes, swelling, fever, and intense pain.  By day six, it was so incredible that we were advised to stop it.  Many asked if he really needed it anyway…well, yes…yes he does…his labs show he is not making growth hormone and he is not going into puberty.  His levels are whacked.  So yes, he needs it.  We never make medication decisions lightly.  We weigh the pros and cons and then try to make the best choices with much prayer for where he is at in this moment in time.  We have suspended the growth hormone and had to take Parker in for an infusion and even that was tricky because we didn’t want to make his pseudo tumor and papilledema worsen.  Also, with this last flare, his adrenal glands went wacky again.  So, once again, we had to increase the hydrocortisone.  I am happy to report, that after 3 weeks of intense pain, Parker seems to be on the down-side of the flare.  Now he seems to have picked up a bit of a cold though…he got his infusion of his immunoglobulin today and so we are hoping that helps. 

The pain management doc didn’t really like this last flare at all.  He is pushing us a bit to proceed with the nerve ablations that we have been putting off in his neck.  We decided to wait because Parker needed a true “winter break” with NO medical appointments.  The doc also talked to us about a new procedure that he really thinks will help Parker.  It involves a remote control battery that can be up to 3 feet away that Parker would use when in pain.  We are still processing that option, however, Parker is quite intrigued.

We had special guests for Christmas this year.  Michael’s cousin and her husband came to Naples for the month of December, so we had them over for Christmas. This was our first time meeting.  It was so fun to listen to them reminiscing about their childhood.  She even made some of grandma’s cookies.  It was all very sweet to witness.  But the most incredible thing happened…her husband shared that he works for a very large pharmaceutical company as a biochemical researcher.  Here I was meeting this delightful man who was super sweet AND an incredible wealth of information.  We had quite the conversation about biologic drugs, immunology and autoimmune diseases.  I got such an education and he knew all the drugs that Parker has been on and how they work.  It was such a great discussion because this is so hard to explain to others who are not immersed in this vocabulary.  I was so thankful to have time with him and his brilliant mind.  He also talked quite a bit to Logan about going into medicine.  It was one of those moments in time when I felt like all was right…in balance…and we were all exactly where we were supposed to be.

This life we lead is with much balance, hope, and prayer.  We never know what is around the corner.  We can only live in today’s moments and be joyful for the gift of love that surrounds us.

Saturday, May 10, 2014

Parker Has Incredible Strength Enveloped in Love

I believe that Parker’s life has great purpose.  He has such amazing strength and every opportunity he has, he shares his love and smile with others.  As a mother, this makes me so very proud.  But more than anything in this world, I want to take away his physical and emotional pain.  I want to somehow take away his worry and his fears…the fears that wake him through his tears at night, when his subconscious takes over.  Over these last two days we have been processing a ton.
The photo on the wall looked like this.

Last Thursday, we went back to the hospital to see the ophthalmologist to see how his eyes are doing under the pressure of his pseudo tumor.  Unfortunately, they look bad.  The doctor took a picture off of his wall of “inside the eye” and started to explain what was going on with Parker’s eyes.  Parker says, “Hey, since I was two, I thought that picture on the wall was a picture of an orange (because it kind-of looked like one).  I just thought you really loved oranges.”  Of course we all busted out laughing.  It reminded me that children can see things we don’t…

Then, Parker shifted gears and started asking a ton of questions and I could see his mind processing every single word with fright all wrapped up in his incredible strength.  I just let him ask…as I held my breath, not believing what I was hearing and witnessing…that this couldn't actually be happening with my baby.  But it was really happening.  Neither of us shedding a tear…we just listened. 

The doctor explained that because we had to go with a less effective drug (Topamax instead of Diamax), that it may not be very good at treating the pseudo tumor that is causing the papilledema in his eyes.  There is a ton of pressure on the back of his eyes. This is why his vision keeps blacking out.  He said that the back is not concave as it should be…Parker responds with “so it’s convex then?”  The doc said, “Yes, and the optic nerves and vessels are also all swollen.”  Parker then asked, “Could I lose my sight?”  The doc replied, “yes, but we will do everything we can and that is why you are here; so I can keep an eye on them.” 

He then explained that we are just trying to buy time with the Topamax in hopes that it will somehow lessen the pressure.  But …he felt there was a high likelihood that a shunt would need to be put into his brain to drain the cerebral spinal fluid to either the heart or stomach to lessen the pressure.  Parker asked if that would work; would that save his vision?  The doc said it could, but if it didn’t work, there was still one more option of doing surgery on his eye to put in a sheath to act as a protector of the optic nerves.  I know these types of procedures happen with other children but this is MY child… who has both autoimmune issues and immunology issues and any time any surgery or trauma occurs with the body, it is very scary because the body tries to attack.  But of course we will do whatever we must.

As we left, Parker went into his ultimate charmer mode and chatted away with the nurses about how awesome he looks with his purple hair and wishing them all a “happy nurses’ week”.  We proceeded downstairs to records because we ordered all his records from last week’s hospital stay…and again, as we passed the many nurses and staff he celebrated them and thanked them for being nurses.  He gave so many high-5s and cheered on many people; and I am certain he was coping at the same time.

After we got the records, we went to see my mom and grandma to deliver our mother’s day love.  His great gram asked how he was doing, and he busted into tears.  Then, he took a few deep breaths and said, “Give me a minute, and I will explain.”  Then, he proceeded to tell them both all about his doctor visit and smiled and said, I’ll get through this.  It will be ok. 

Laying relieves head pressure.
When I got home, I read the entire stack of medical notes from the hospital stay last week.  It confirmed all that we already knew…but it also had two pieces of info that concern me.  Parker has a lesion on his right frontal lobe…we knew this…but we didn’t know that the radiologist recommended repeating the MRI with triple contrast.  And there is a pars intermedia cyst on his pituitary gland.  They did an extra MRI of his pituitary because he is supposed to get growth hormone.  Endocrine told us that if anything is on the pituitary, then he couldn’t have the growth hormone because the growth hormone causes everything to “grow”.  This additional bad news is very hard to process as the growth hormone was going to hopefully help multiple issues.  I did call the doc about all this but of course we have to “wait the weekend”.

So now, we juggle our schedules so someone is home with Parker because his eyes feel a bit like a ticking time bomb.  He is having more head pressure and nausea.  If he begins puking, we rush to the ER.  We have to trust that things will get better.  We have to have faith that we are moving with tiny steps in the right direction.  We ask that all our friends and family continue to pray and surround us with their loving support.


Yesterday, I was at a “leadership conference” for work and one of the speakers, James Robbins, said something that really hit home for me, “Understand the power of 1,000 tiny steps.”  It reminded me that with every tiny step that we make with regards to Parker’s health, it is an accumulation of steps in the right direction.  But I also couldn't help but think…I also understand that power of the many who rally around our family and help carry us through this journey.  That is powerful love.
Wearing our blue for arthritis awareness month - May.

Thursday, August 8, 2013

Juvenile Rheumatoid Arthritis Advocacy (by Logan)


(Logan wrote this paper for his college English class and wanted to share it.)

           The average teenage boy is filled with energy and feels like he can take on the world. However, I am most certainly not your average teenage boy; every morning it takes me a good twenty minutes to get moving. My joints creak as I step out of bed. My body requires a “break in” period every day. My hands hurt so bad on occasion that I am incapable of doing the one thing I love, playing guitar. I live with a form of juvenile arthritis known as spondyloarthropathy, which mainly affects the tendons and ligaments. Many people however live with much more severe forms of rheumatoid arthritis that are potentially life threatening. By definition, juvenile rheumatoid arthritis, or JRA, is an autoimmune condition that can affect virtually any part of the body, including the skin, eyes, and vital organs. Because arthritis is perceived as an “old persons’” disease, many people disregard how dangerous it can be and who it effects. In actuality, arthritis can hit anyone, at any age; over 300,000 children suffer from various forms of juvenile arthritis in the United States, yet nobody knows about it (Advocating for Kids With Arthritis). Awareness needs to be raised for this overlooked diseased and advocates are desperately needed.

          The vast majority of people view arthritis as an old person’s disease that is solely related to joint pain. Because of what is assumed, people think that living with arthritis are easily treated and cured. Despite this assumption, there are actually over one hundred different forms of arthritis (AFPacificRegion). Many patients suffer from various symptoms. This is known as overlap syndrome. As a result of various symptoms, many children are on a series of different medications. Usually patients are on medications to counteract side effects caused by other medications. For instance, many children must take Zofran with their Methotrexate injections, in order to prevent extreme nausea.  For children with oligoarticular arthritis, which affects four or less joints (Dunkin, Mary Anne), doctors may prescribe corticosteroid injections, which are applied to the joints. Polyarticular arthritis on the other hand, pertains to five or more affected joints. Because of the numerous joints affected, steroid injections may be difficult, so many children are prescribed with methotrexate, a chemotherapy used as an anti rheumatic drug (Dunkin, Mary Anne). Though methotrexate is used for polyarticular arthritis, it is commonly used among the various forms of JRA. Patients with JRA who haven’t experienced success with methotrexate are usually prescribed biologics, such as Enbrel and Remicade, which are created biologically as opposed to chemically and act as a buffer to the patient’s compromised immune system. These drugs are generally administered through either IV-infusions, which push the medications into your bloodstream at a slow pace, or injections. Systemic onset JRA is a completely different beast; this form of JRA is associated with both systemic and joint diseases, making treatment more complicated. Because of the double-edged sword that is systemic JRA, treatment may involve a cocktail of narcotics, anti inflammatories. biologics and steroids. Though this has only scraped the surface of JRA treatment, nearly all treatments of juvenile rheumatoid arthritis take on the same goal, to achieve remission, something that can only be reached with patience and at times, proper funding.

          Over 300,000 children are diagnosed with some form of juvenile rheumatoid arthritis in the United States alone (Advocating for Kids With Arthritis). All of these children face adversity daily, and are forced to go to great lengths in order to get the treatment that they deserve. Caitlin Ryan, age fifteen, was diagnosed with JRA at the age of three. She doesn’t “remember life without pain” and has to find alternative ways in order to accomplish average tasks. By the age of twelve, Caitlin had both of her hips replaced due to this disease and is still fighting (Caitlin Ryan). Danielle Guth has had JRA since she was four years old and is now going into her senior year of high school. Doctors, medications, and pain have become a norm in her life, making it hard for her to participate in her school’s sports. Due to her arthritis, Danielle has gone through extraneous pain, surgeries and has suffered from alopecia, an autoimmune condition that causes one’s hair to fall out (Danielle Guth). For Kristen McAllister, her JRA journey began at eight years old. At first it was thought that her pain was due to her gymnastics, but when she had the swollen joints examined, doctors discovered that they were rheumatoid nodules. Kristen says that juvenile rheumatoid arthritis has been “destroying my joints, muscles, vital organs, and eyes.” Shortly after her diagnosis of JRA, she also discovered that the arthritis has been affecting her eyes in the form of inflammation known as uveitis. In conjunction with JRA, uveitis is a painless swelling of the eyes that can only be diagnosed when the eyes are examined under a microscope. If not treated promptly and properly, uveitis has the potential to take its victim’s vision, either partially or completely. As a result, she was put on two weekly injections of Humira and methotrexate yet she didn’t respond, so she is now on a monthly IV-infusion of Remicade, solumedrol, and IVIG (Kristen McAllister).

          Despite the idea of finding a cure for this autoimmune disease being unlikely within our lifetime, there are ways that we can make these kids’ lives more bearable. Through advocacy and raising awareness, we can spread the word about how dangerous, and unbearable juvenile arthritis is. As previously stated, 300,000 children in the United States have been diagnosed with some form of juvenile arthritis (AFPacificRegion). Even though these children make up a vast majority of children with diseases in America, there are less than 250 pediatric rheumatologists nation-wide; 


to add to that miniscule number, 90% of these pediatric rheumatologists are clustered in major cities (Advocating for Kids With Arthritis), making it nearly impossible for many families to find a doctor that they like within a few hundred miles. Every major city has at least one Arthritis walk a year, but this isn’t enough; we need to openly talk about it with others for them to understand, and show them how it affects these children daily. Without starting a conversation about it, juvenile arthritis will never gain the same awareness that pediatric cancer, or juvenile diabetes gets. In the pediatric infusion room at some hospitals, cancer patients often receive "rewards", care packages, and/or gifts from donors. These donations are specifically labeled for the cancer patients, even though the patients with JRA are in the same room as them, and most likely receiving similar treatments. To add to that, every time a cancer patient is cured in many pediatric infusions rooms, a bell goes off. The bell signifies final day in infusion room.  There is a cure for many childhood cancers, due to their funding, but there is no cure for JRA. These children who have JRA may never get to hear that bell ringing for them, but they get to sit and watch countless cancer patients be cured throughout their lifetime. People don’t understand the disease, or don’t even know about it, but it is our job to spread the word. Just like Kristen said, “By advocating and spreading awareness, you are doing your part in turning that misunderstanding and ignorance into understanding and support” (Kristen McAllister).

          On a national level, juvenile rheumatoid arthritis has gained little to no attention amongst the people. Here in Florida, there is even less awareness. My brother and I will walk around pushing an empty wheelchair, getting strange looks form people; when they ask why we are pushing the chair, we say that we have arthritis and that we are feeling good enough to walk. After hearing that, many will walk away with a look of doubt that we have arthritis.  Sometimes teenagers will make fun of us, by calling us cripples, mocking the way we walk, laughing at us when we are in wheelchairs, and even by doubting our physical abilities. On top of that, people who are elderly will try to relate because they think they know the pain that we go though. What these people refuse to comprehend is that there are over one hundred forms of arthritis; and we are not equivalent to the elderly. The only people who truly understand what my brother and I have are our friends, because they care enough to learn and understand. Me and my brother don’t even have the same forms of arthritis.  I have spondyloarthropathy, which is essentially a permanent form of tendonitis; while my brother has systemic onset juvenile rheumatoid arthritis, meaning that his entire body is affected, including his vital organs. Because of our various diagnoses, we are able to better educate people who care enough to ask what we have. This year, our walk team was the highest fundraising team in not only the state, but also the entire region, raising a total of $16,622 (Parker’s Purple Playas). Not only does this give perspective on where juvenile arthritis stands with the nation, but also in the state of Florida, where many elderly couples who are arthritic live in the suburbs. Not only is JRA overlooked in Florida, but so is the typical form of arthritis that impacts the elderly, which is called osteoarthritis.

          Juvenile rheumatoid arthritis is hands down, the most overlooked childhood disease in America. In addition, when not promptly and properly treated, it can be an extremely dangerous disease. It’s an invisible disease, meaning that you can’t tell if someone has it, unlike the "bald head" associated with cancer.  There is not the level of awareness to back JRA like juvenile diabetes. However, with advocacy comes better funding for medical fellowships, more doctors, medical research and advancements, and most importantly, a chance of remission. Advocating is as simple as showing a video to a friend, or telling them how arthritis affects children. But without voices, the message won’t be heard, and a lack of progress is just as bad as digressing. It just takes one conversation to gain someone’s support.
Works Cited

1. “Advocating for Kids With Arthritis.” Kidsgetarthritistoo.org. Arthritis Foundation. 23 July 2013. <http://www.kidsgetarthritistoo.org/who-we-are/advocating-for-kids.php>.

2. AFPacificRegion. “Faces of Arthritis.” YouTube.com. Arthritis foundation. 29 Oct 2012. 23 July 2013. <http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8zd3xXabGZ8>

3. Dunkin, Mary Anne. “Understanding How Doctors Treat JIA.” Kidsgetarthritistoo.org. Arthritis Foundation. 23 July 2013. <http://www.kidsgetarthritistoo.org/living-with-ja/medical-care/treatment/jia-treatment-guidelines.php>.

4. Guth, Danielle. “JA Awareness.” Personal story emailed. 24 July 2013. 24 July 2013.

5. McAllister, Kristen. “Juvenile Arthritis.” Personal story emailed. 24 July 2013. 24 July 2013.

6. “Parker’s Purple Playas.” Arthritis Walk. Arthritis Foundation. 5 Aug 2013. <http://sacarthritiswalk.kintera.org/faf/search/searchTeamPart.asp?ievent=1042465&team=5311275>.

7. Ryan, Caitlin. “My Personal Story.” Personal story emailed. 24 July 2013. 24 July 2013.

 

Sunday, June 30, 2013

Friends Forever

Last night Parker decided to write down his thoughts after the JA Family Fun Day and then he asked me to post it on the blog.

This morning I woke up in a ton of pain. It wasn’t a surprise because I have been hurting really bad. But today I had to push through it because it was the family beach day thing. I slept the whole way there and really didn’t want to go. When we got there I still wanted to go home. But I started hanging out with my friends and things started to get better. There was one specific friend that I really connect with. And the whole day was ok when I was hanging out with her and my other friends. The best part of the day was that I won the best-dressed contest. I also got second place in a watermelon-eating contest. I ended up doing sooooooo much and now I’m in even more pain. After the fun though I still feel terrible. But remember your friends make everything better.

Thursday, June 13, 2013

Cards for a Cause!

There are really amazing big-hearted people in this world!  I have been blessed to meet one such person, Helene Graziano.  Helene heard about Parker through a friend of mine who was sharing to raise awareness about juvenile arthritis.  My friend, Denise, told Helene about Parker’s giving heart and how another mom, Dawn Veselka, and I had started a non-profit to benefit children with chronic illness like Parker and Sadie (Dawn’s daughter).

www.helenespapercrafting.com
 
Helene and her daughter
Helene was very excited to hear about this because she has a business called Helene’s Papercrafting with “Stampin’ Up”.  Their new theme is “Making the Difference”.  Well, this new theme lead her to recruit her family’s help and set up a weekend card crafting marathon to benefit our non-profit, the High-5-Club.  Helene wanted to make a difference for children with chronic illness like Parker and their families.
Rochelle giving Helene a
High-Five
Now, what you need to understand is that Dawn and I have been working hard just to jump start High-5-Club and we only have a Facebook page, https://www.facebook.com/high5cluborg?fref=ts,  and a website landing page, www.high-5-club.com, so far.  We are a brand new non-profit with a 501c3.  We are still just trying to get everything lined up and along comes Helene who made High-5-Club her first official benefit event!  I just couldn’t believe it!

I went to the final of four card making sessions that she hosted.  As soon as I entered, I could feel the warmth of her heart.  Helene and her daughter greeted us all and guided us through such fun card crafts.  I knew I was there because of the benefit, but what I didn’t know was what fun it would be.  It was like I was transported away from my stress and I found myself relaxing, giggling, teasing, and conversing with an amazing group of women who were all there, not only to learn and craft, but to also give back to their community and make a difference.  I am thankful to each and every one of them.
At one point, Helene shared why she went into this business and she shared that she was drawn to it because she was a social worker; and what she liked about paper crafting was that it allowed for her to build relationships.  Her words resonated with me a great deal and as she spoke about how impressed she was with children like Parker; she took my breath away.  She was incredibly genuine and in that moment I was thinking how we are all interconnected and the relationships we build are the greatest gifts in this world.  The human spirit…the love we share…this is what pushes us on.
Helene donated $600 to the High-5-Club.  A huge “high five” goes out to her for our official first benefit and first donation. Yet, Helene has given much more through her kindness.  We are so very thankful.