Showing posts with label hope. Show all posts
Showing posts with label hope. Show all posts

Wednesday, March 21, 2018

10 Years of HOPE

While reflecting on the last 10 years, our family has learned so many valuable lessons:   
Our worries, revealed faith…
Endless treatments, needle sticks, and procedures brought us solutions…
Ongoing pain, showed us even greater strength…
Unsolved mysteries, taught us patience…
Physical barriers and road blocks guided us to alternate paths… 
Funding brought us research and closer to a cure…
Loss filled us with a never ending drive to battle on…
But the greatest lesson of all is LOVE. 
We are grateful to each of you who have loved us along the way;
… and we are grateful that together we have never lost HOPE. 

Our strong, incredible, forever hopeful kiddo has endured way too much these past 10 years.  His journey began in elementary school.  Kids should just enjoy being kids.  We will do all we can to bring JOY to children and their families by helping to not only fund a future cure, but also camp, family fun days, and conference for kids who are living in the here and now.  This is why we still ask for support year after year after year.  Because until there is no need to ask, we will. 

Please take a moment to scroll through Parker’s 10 year medical journey.  By no means has his life only been filled with these hardships, it’s only a piece of him.  He is so much more than this horrible disease.  I just encourage you to take a moment and pause and let this list sink in.   He is not the only child enduring Juvenile Arthritis; he is one of 300,000 children.  What if this was your daughter, son, niece, nephew, or grand child?  Wouldn’t you do whatever you could?  I shamelessly ask for your continued support…walk with us, pray with us, and if you can…donate with us.  Details are at this link:  https://events.arthritis.org/participant/Parker-Lentini

Could you imagine enduring all this for 10 years?
·         First year of symptoms, doctors ruled out:  Lymphoma, Leukemia, fibromyalgia, MS
·         It took 1 year 7 months to get a diagnosis; another 6 months later to receive the correct diagnosis of systemic on-set juvenile arthritis
·         His many symptoms:  intense pain, high fevers, roaming rash, paleness, extreme fatigue, falling down, difficulty walking, peeling fingers and toes, bruising, rough skin on face; swelling; and the pink finger tips
·         All joints in entire body affected (Did you know there are joints even in the ribcage?)
·         First year, Doc told him no contact sports, skim boarding, jumping, or skate boarding
·         Multiple organs affected: 
o   heart
o   lungs/bronchioles
o   lymph nodes
o   brain
o   eyes
o   vascular system
o   adrenal system
o   skin
o   kidneys
o   GI tract
·         Multiple overlapping syndromes/medical issues: 
o   allergies
o   asthma
o   raynauds
o   myositis
o   vasculitis
o   osteoporosis
o   hypogammaglobulinemia (immune deficiency)
o   brain pseudo tumor
o   papilledema (pressure/swelling on optic nerve)
o   psoriasis
o   anklyosis spondylitis
o   interstitial lung disease (pulmonary obstruction and restriction)
o   adrenal insufficiency/crisis
o   kidney stones
o   autonomic dysfunction
o   possible crohns
o   alopecia
o   cushings
o   4 rounds of pericardial effusion
o   pluersy
o   on the verge of MAS twice (life threatening)
·         18 medical specialists all throughout the state (up to 4.5 hours away)
·         2.5 years into journey, another lymphoma scare
·         2011 began pain meds
·         Many Meds (anywhere from 18 to 32 meds at any one time)
o   Shots tried:  Enbrel, humira, ilaris, stelara, cosentyx
o   Countless infusion room visits for treatments of IVs: Remicaide, actemra, kineret, rilonacept, simponi, rituxan (wipes out all B-cells), Reclast
o   7 years of IVIG (blood plasma to boost immunoglobulins to help fight infections)
o   4.5 years weekly chemo shots with anti-nausea meds
o   Growth and hormone therapy
o   Anti-organ rejection med
o   5 years straight of prednisone (steroid) with major weight gain
o   9 years of compounded meds due to allergies, with a high cost
·         Took place in a clinical trial:  RAPPORT Study
·         Surgeries: 
o   4 reconstructive surgeries
o   sub-clavicle port (permanent IV access over heart)
o   cystoscopy (remove bladder blood clot)
o   kidney stone blasting and stent
o   5 spinal taps
o   about 15 nerve ablations
o   3 Endoscopies, 5 colonoscopies
o   6 teeth extractions
·         Many many ER visits
·         So very many hospital stays, some in PICU
·         Many talks of dying and going to heaven to escape the pain
·         Altered school schedule, charter school, shortened school hours, hospital homebound, virtual school, and now on track to get GED…there really wasn’t a “place” for a kiddo with intermittent attendance and severe/complex health issues.
·         Special equipment: 
o   mouth splint for jaw
o   shoe inserts
o   ankle/foot orthodics
o   knee scooter
o   wheelchair
o   walker
o   hand splints
o   shower chair
o   therapy ball for seating
o   built-up spoon/toothbrush/pencils
o   night leg splints
o   wrist splints
o   blood pressure cuff
o   bi-pap machine
o   nebulizer
o   home IV pump/poll
o   storage and mini frig for all the meds and supplies
·         Medical Treatments:
o   2 rounds of occupational therapy (OT)
o   Ongoing rounds of physical therapy (PT)
o   Aqua therapy
o   Biofeedback
o   Acupuncture
o   Counseling
·         Multiple tests/scans: 
o   Xrays
o   Blood labs…so many blood labs
o   CT scans
o   MRIs, MREs, MRAs
o   hidascan
o   dexascans
o   pulmonary function box tests
o   field of vision tests
o   6 sleep studies
o   ultra sounds
o   EKGs
o   EEGs
·         Bullying, non-educated adult humiliation
·         Insurance denials, appeals, overrides, case manager
·         Children/friends have died
·         Make-a-Wish recipient

With every birthday candle blown-out, cake cutting, shooting star, fallen eye lash, coin thrown into a well, 11:11, and dandelion blown….the wish is always full of HOPE:  We wish for no more JA pain and a cure for all children!  If you can, please join us for the Walk to Cure Arthritis on May 12.  

Again, details are at this link:  https://events.arthritis.org/participant/Parker-Lentini

We thank you for supporting us, crying with us, laughing with us, and loving us!
The Lentini Family

Tuesday, December 8, 2015

The CURE for Chronic Illnesses...by Logan Lentini

Today, Logan posted this on Facebook and I think it is worthy of a blog post...

Incurable, it’s a word that some of us are far too familiar with, and quite frankly I am tired of hearing it. Obviously there are countless diseases that are incurable; diabetes, arthritis, lupus, fibromyalgia, cystic fibrosis, and many cancers, currently have no cure, just to name a few. For many chronic illnesses, symptoms are manageable, but in other cases the symptoms can be lethal. 

When health professionals verbalize that a disease is incurable it can do one of two things. From a patient’s perspective, hearing that word can potentially eliminate all aspects of normalcy from their life. To a non-patient, hearing that something is incurable can stir up a whirlwind of emotions, especially if the non-patient personally knows a patient battling chronic illness. However, saying that chronic illnesses are incurable is simply false. Though there may not currently be a cure for a specific disease, that doesn’t mean that there is no cure at all. 

This is amazing news; if you think about it, there is, in theory, a cure for every chronic illness known to man. All it takes for a cure to be discovered is the right person conducting the right research. The cure could lie in alternative medicine, or genetics, or somewhere else, but there is a cure. We are on the right track as a society to finding these cures too; many chronic illnesses are now manageable through pharmaceuticals, and various other methods. Knowing how to manage the symptoms of chronic illnesses is the first step to understanding them on a cellular level, which in turn will eventually lead to the discovery of a cure. 

Now I’m not saying that every chronic illness will have a known cure over night, or even over the next ten years, but I do believe that in this century we will find the answers that we are looking for. There is a solution to every problem, and there are cures to chronic illnesses. As long as we stay hopeful, and advocate for ourselves, the right person will eventually come to the table and make the discovery that we have been waiting for; the discovery that will change the world.

Thursday, February 12, 2015

Yes, We are Blooming with HOPE...


Last year, after the JA Conference, I visited the botanical gardens, and I saw this quote that spoke deeply to me…

“A flower does not compare to the flowers around it; it simply blossoms and blooms where it is planted. “

It is very hard not to compare…As parents, we see our children alongside their peers and friends.  We watch them grow together.  As a parent of children who both have juvenile arthritis, we can see differences in our kids' development when "comparing" them with children their same age.  We have seen them grow at different rates both physically and cognitively and in some ways through their social-emotional well being.  It is really difficult to observe the struggles that our children have to endure, but I do believe that it gives them a very unique perspective on live and has caused them to be in full bloom.

This life with JA is where our family was planted…this is where our family will bloom.  And with each new blossom we celebrate our Yeses…
Yes…After 2.5 years of hospital homebound, Parker is back in school.
Yes…Logan’s JA is under control and so are his migraines
Yes…Parker is walking more and using his wheelchair less
Yes…Logan is getting ready for college
Yes…Parker’s vision is restoring
Yes…Logan won the pinewood derby at the St. Louis JA Conference
Yes…Parker has friends who love him for him
Yes…Logan is an amazing guitar player
Yes…Parker is a great photographer
Yes…Michael and I are proud parents whose family has bloomed and grown to include many families impacted by JA.
Our JA family is one big beautiful bouquet.

I am getting so excited about this year’s Juvenile Arthritis Conference...There are many dedicated volunteers and AF staff working hard to make this annual event full of networking, education, and fun.  But as we worked hard this past week planning the schedule, I was reminded that there is nothing like the relationships that are built through these connections.   These people are giving, passionate, loving, and dedicated to working together to support families. 

And I adore the theme "HOPE Grows Here"...As we teamed together, it felt a little like we were tossing the weeds, planting the seeds, and nourishing our souls; so that we could watch our great big JA Family blossom and grow even more together. 

JA has a way of showing us what really matters.  It has taken a long time to truly feel like I have some deep roots, outstretching branches, and a good strong footing.  You see, JA is like that big storm that bashes at one’s heart. The STORM reminds us of our reality…but with each new family I meet and with every story shared, we not only share tears of sadness, but tears full of laughter and joy.  

That balance gives us that strong footing to grow stronger, love deeper, laugh harder.  YES…it is possible to find the joy in life and to choose to celebrate our victories great and small. For it is HOPE that makes it feel like YES is possible …for with each small victory we share we grow a little taller and stronger.

First we have to have HOPE, then we can champion our yeses.

Sunday, December 30, 2012

LOVE Pushes HOPE Higher and Higher


Waiting for Doc

For the last two and a half years we have made our 2.5 hour drive to the hospital every two weeks for treatment for Parker.  We are moving into 2013 with a much needed break from this schedule along with much hope for continued improvement.  Most of Parker’s treatment is at home now and we don’t have to go back to the hospital as frequent…we now go every 3 months.   In reflecting on this last year, a tremendous amount has happened.  With every hurtle we have continued with strength to take the leap of faith needed to get us to the place we need to be for our family.  Of course, Parker has been incredibly strong through all of this, but Logan has been just as strong, if not stronger.  As adults, Michael and I have tried to maintain day-to-day needs…but so has Logan. 

Logan

Logan's eyes get like this with the really bad migraines.

Logan has his own health issues with his relentless migraines this year.  This is a condition he has had since he was 5 years old and we have a very strong history of migraines in our family, but as Logan has entered his mid-teen years they have been more difficult to manage.   These migraines have not only impacted his health, but also his social life, education and stamina.  He continues to overcome and it is remarkable that he pushes forward while also supporting his brother and trying to create a balance in his life.  We are proud of the young man that he has become and his future has much promise and I am looking forward to the days to come.

Christmas 2012

We also want to celebrate Parker’s progress…this year pushed our hope higher and higher.  This year Parker has been on multiple biologic drugs to combat against juvenile arthritis.  I know that these drug names mean little to the general public (except maybe “Enbrel”) but bear with me as I process this…ready…he has been on actemra, then actemra with Enbrel and soon after he also began IVIG infusions (IVIG is a blood plasma to treat hypogammaglubulinemia and is not a biologic).  Then he took actemra with Enbrel and a round of remicaide, then he needed to stop all these (including IVIG) in order to proceed with the “study drug’s wash out process”.  During the wash-out of these previous biologics we had to up his steroids and begin the biologic kineret (twice a day) because he could take kineret up to 4 days prior to starting the RAPPORT study looking at the effects of the biologic rilanocept on systemic on-set juvenile arthritis.
Soon after starting the study, Parker’s health started to decline…yes, we are pretty darn certain he got the placebo and not the rilonacept.  Parker landed in the hospital in tremendous pain, swelling and pericardial effusion.  But looking back on all this, Parker has no regrets.  He knows he is playing a small role in impacting the future for children with JA.  Our family went into this last year knowing it was going to be a tough one.  We decided to put school to the side and be ok with hospital homebound while we worked on supporting Parker’s health.  We now feel like we are on the flip side…  What we have learned is that with each step forward…we are moving forward at a slow and steady pace…and although the journey may feel endless at times, we have felt tremendous forward propelling LOVE.

Surprise care package from Sloans via the infusion room nurses!

Thank you Ky for my special Parker Snowman!

This love has come from very unexpected places through very caring actions.  We know people lead busy lives with their own struggles and we are thankful for each and every person who has paused to show us love through your calls, emails, cards, text messages, and Facebook posts.  We are also incredibly appreciative for the actions people have taken…hugs, help with picking up Logan, meal prep/restaurant gift cards, doing laundry/cleaning, dropping by to say hi, leaving notes on the windshield, donations to the AF walk and High-5-Club, help to maintain work, comments on our blog, hospital visits, surprise packages, joining our walk team, helping fund raise, willingness to drive across the state to help us access an “out of stock” med, listening, encouraging, and validating our feelings.
We also want to thank the medical staff supporting Parker.  We know we are still on this journey…  Thank you for your passion in this field, your work is unbelievably difficult and we need more people like you in this world.  And I am not only referring to the doctors and nurses, but also all of the people behind the scenes who process the relentless amount of paperwork and insurance “overrides” because the insurance companies are not always open and willing to charter in untraveled territory.  Thank God that Parker was the first child in the state of Florida to get approval for the study drug once the study ended.  Multiple biologics failed him…this is the first drug that has had enough of an impact on him that we are witnessing some of the “old Parker” return.  When a devastating chronic illness impacts a family, you begin to try to create “new norms” and you work hard to find happiness in the little moments and pretend a bit that they are as wonderful, if not better than the happiness you experienced prior to the “disease” entering your life.  And in some ways they are…because they are felt with an increased intensity…emotional and physical pain does that to a person… But oh the JOY and renewed hope we feel with our “old Parker’s” return.  


Turning in wheelchair wheels for
skateboard wheels.
Logan and Parker are experiencing their brotherly passions again:  quirky fun, chitter chatter, planning events again, gaming together, and skateboarding…yes, skateboarding!  Logan spent his own money this Christmas to refurbish Parker’s board to make it safer for him.  He got him better wheels with a better center of gravity, bushings, bearing spacer, and stronger grip tape. 
Love is totally rolling this pair forward… and Michael and I love witnessing this…Here’s to continued happiness in the New Year.

Look Doc, I am working my stiff ankles!