Showing posts with label arthritis foundation. Show all posts
Showing posts with label arthritis foundation. Show all posts

Wednesday, March 21, 2018

10 Years of HOPE

While reflecting on the last 10 years, our family has learned so many valuable lessons:   
Our worries, revealed faith…
Endless treatments, needle sticks, and procedures brought us solutions…
Ongoing pain, showed us even greater strength…
Unsolved mysteries, taught us patience…
Physical barriers and road blocks guided us to alternate paths… 
Funding brought us research and closer to a cure…
Loss filled us with a never ending drive to battle on…
But the greatest lesson of all is LOVE. 
We are grateful to each of you who have loved us along the way;
… and we are grateful that together we have never lost HOPE. 

Our strong, incredible, forever hopeful kiddo has endured way too much these past 10 years.  His journey began in elementary school.  Kids should just enjoy being kids.  We will do all we can to bring JOY to children and their families by helping to not only fund a future cure, but also camp, family fun days, and conference for kids who are living in the here and now.  This is why we still ask for support year after year after year.  Because until there is no need to ask, we will. 

Please take a moment to scroll through Parker’s 10 year medical journey.  By no means has his life only been filled with these hardships, it’s only a piece of him.  He is so much more than this horrible disease.  I just encourage you to take a moment and pause and let this list sink in.   He is not the only child enduring Juvenile Arthritis; he is one of 300,000 children.  What if this was your daughter, son, niece, nephew, or grand child?  Wouldn’t you do whatever you could?  I shamelessly ask for your continued support…walk with us, pray with us, and if you can…donate with us.  Details are at this link:  https://events.arthritis.org/participant/Parker-Lentini

Could you imagine enduring all this for 10 years?
·         First year of symptoms, doctors ruled out:  Lymphoma, Leukemia, fibromyalgia, MS
·         It took 1 year 7 months to get a diagnosis; another 6 months later to receive the correct diagnosis of systemic on-set juvenile arthritis
·         His many symptoms:  intense pain, high fevers, roaming rash, paleness, extreme fatigue, falling down, difficulty walking, peeling fingers and toes, bruising, rough skin on face; swelling; and the pink finger tips
·         All joints in entire body affected (Did you know there are joints even in the ribcage?)
·         First year, Doc told him no contact sports, skim boarding, jumping, or skate boarding
·         Multiple organs affected: 
o   heart
o   lungs/bronchioles
o   lymph nodes
o   brain
o   eyes
o   vascular system
o   adrenal system
o   skin
o   kidneys
o   GI tract
·         Multiple overlapping syndromes/medical issues: 
o   allergies
o   asthma
o   raynauds
o   myositis
o   vasculitis
o   osteoporosis
o   hypogammaglobulinemia (immune deficiency)
o   brain pseudo tumor
o   papilledema (pressure/swelling on optic nerve)
o   psoriasis
o   anklyosis spondylitis
o   interstitial lung disease (pulmonary obstruction and restriction)
o   adrenal insufficiency/crisis
o   kidney stones
o   autonomic dysfunction
o   possible crohns
o   alopecia
o   cushings
o   4 rounds of pericardial effusion
o   pluersy
o   on the verge of MAS twice (life threatening)
·         18 medical specialists all throughout the state (up to 4.5 hours away)
·         2.5 years into journey, another lymphoma scare
·         2011 began pain meds
·         Many Meds (anywhere from 18 to 32 meds at any one time)
o   Shots tried:  Enbrel, humira, ilaris, stelara, cosentyx
o   Countless infusion room visits for treatments of IVs: Remicaide, actemra, kineret, rilonacept, simponi, rituxan (wipes out all B-cells), Reclast
o   7 years of IVIG (blood plasma to boost immunoglobulins to help fight infections)
o   4.5 years weekly chemo shots with anti-nausea meds
o   Growth and hormone therapy
o   Anti-organ rejection med
o   5 years straight of prednisone (steroid) with major weight gain
o   9 years of compounded meds due to allergies, with a high cost
·         Took place in a clinical trial:  RAPPORT Study
·         Surgeries: 
o   4 reconstructive surgeries
o   sub-clavicle port (permanent IV access over heart)
o   cystoscopy (remove bladder blood clot)
o   kidney stone blasting and stent
o   5 spinal taps
o   about 15 nerve ablations
o   3 Endoscopies, 5 colonoscopies
o   6 teeth extractions
·         Many many ER visits
·         So very many hospital stays, some in PICU
·         Many talks of dying and going to heaven to escape the pain
·         Altered school schedule, charter school, shortened school hours, hospital homebound, virtual school, and now on track to get GED…there really wasn’t a “place” for a kiddo with intermittent attendance and severe/complex health issues.
·         Special equipment: 
o   mouth splint for jaw
o   shoe inserts
o   ankle/foot orthodics
o   knee scooter
o   wheelchair
o   walker
o   hand splints
o   shower chair
o   therapy ball for seating
o   built-up spoon/toothbrush/pencils
o   night leg splints
o   wrist splints
o   blood pressure cuff
o   bi-pap machine
o   nebulizer
o   home IV pump/poll
o   storage and mini frig for all the meds and supplies
·         Medical Treatments:
o   2 rounds of occupational therapy (OT)
o   Ongoing rounds of physical therapy (PT)
o   Aqua therapy
o   Biofeedback
o   Acupuncture
o   Counseling
·         Multiple tests/scans: 
o   Xrays
o   Blood labs…so many blood labs
o   CT scans
o   MRIs, MREs, MRAs
o   hidascan
o   dexascans
o   pulmonary function box tests
o   field of vision tests
o   6 sleep studies
o   ultra sounds
o   EKGs
o   EEGs
·         Bullying, non-educated adult humiliation
·         Insurance denials, appeals, overrides, case manager
·         Children/friends have died
·         Make-a-Wish recipient

With every birthday candle blown-out, cake cutting, shooting star, fallen eye lash, coin thrown into a well, 11:11, and dandelion blown….the wish is always full of HOPE:  We wish for no more JA pain and a cure for all children!  If you can, please join us for the Walk to Cure Arthritis on May 12.  

Again, details are at this link:  https://events.arthritis.org/participant/Parker-Lentini

We thank you for supporting us, crying with us, laughing with us, and loving us!
The Lentini Family

Sunday, June 19, 2016

I Did What I Thought was Impossible with Much Gratitude in My Heart...by Parker

On May 7th 2016 I did what I thought was impossible. I walked the full mile at this year’s Walk To Cure Arthritis. But it wasn’t just me; it was US! Whether you were at the walk or not all of you were there walking with me in spirit. This year our team raised more money than we ever had before; we raised over $27,000. And I couldn’t of done it without each and every one of you. But there are a couple of special people that helped me do the impossible, and those people know who they are. Through out that walk these people stayed with me walking at “Parker speed”. And it was their and all of you guys’ support that got me through that. Thanks, all of you, for supporting me.

Enjoy Pictures and Video Below...

Video Crossing Finish Line

Time Lapse of Entire Walk with GoPro

Speech I Gave About Belle, the Local Youth Honoree

Have Fun Scrolling through Walk Pics































Sunday, February 15, 2015

Parker is Getting Surgery in 2 Weeks

We finally made it to the pediatric orthopedic doc.  Yes…we have been putting it off, only because it didn’t seem to be “the most urgent need”.  We went, thinking that the doc was going to recommend “bracing” Parker’s left ankle.  We were definitely shocked to hear that Parker needs extensive surgery.

As Parker got off of the examining table for the doctor, his right foot hit the floor first and the doc immediately commented “Oh that right foot doesn't look too great”…but when that left one met the ground, he quickly shifted all focus to that left foot and ankle saying, “Oh he definitely needs surgery; this left one is way worse.”  Well, we knew it was worse but …gulp…surgery?!  He then went into great detail to explain that Parker needs surgery and for several reasons:  both ankles are collapsing towards the ground and the ligaments and tendons are not doing a good job holding things in place; his foot/toes are turning along with his tibia bones; and he felt that the issues with his feet, ankles, and legs could be contributing to the extreme pain he is having with his knees, hips, and spine. 

The solution, in two weeks, if all his docs clear him, he will be having surgery on both of his feet, ankles, and legs.  We had several docs recommend the doctor that we saw; and we are very glad that he is also the orthopedic surgeon; so it was a one stop shop.  He will be working on tendons, ligaments, and bones, making cuts in his bones to insert cadaver bones and pins with a goal of aligning both feet and ankles.   
Of course, Parker is not a straight up easy patient…not that this surgery is easy, but there are many things for his surgeon to consider.  The last time he had broken bones, it took 6 months to heal…much longer than usual.  He has full-on osteoporosis and of course juvenile arthritis.


His immune system is compromised due to his meds and also because he has hypogammaglobulinemia.  He has pulmonary obstruction and restriction.  And so, the surgeon is talking to his docs and he is going to use a bone stimulator to help with bone healing.  We are praying hard that his body won’t reject nor attack the foreign objects that they are about to insert to correct his feet, ankles, and legs.

He will have at least three days in the hospital; thank goodness this doctor is local.  He will then need to be out of school for at least a week.  The good news is the surgery is right before spring break…the bad news is recovery is during spring break…  But we are really trying to focus on the fact that he will not lose days at school since he is so close to going over 51% days missed at school.  But Michael, Logan, and I feel so sad for this kid.  It seems that every school break, he is struggling with something big, making it difficult to enjoy time off.  This means that Logan and Michael will be vacationing with our friends without us…so Parker and I welcome visitors to cheer him up.  Of course, call first.

Parker will have the first set of casts that cannot get wet, on both feet/legs for 4 weeks and he cannot bare weight on them either.  Then he will get a second round of casts that he will be able to put small amounts of weight on.  He should be able to return back to school, in a wheelchair, after spring break.

When I think back on last weekend at Camp Boggy Creek and how he danced and kept stopping due to pain, I just cannot imagine how this kid does it.  But he DANCED and he was HAPPY.  We love him so very much.

So here we go... on our newest journey...the journey to maintain walking and hopefully towards less pain.  Then, Parker, you can DANCE your little heart out!

Thursday, August 21, 2014

The Joy of WALKING...Don't Need That Wheelchair Today!

When Parker didn't get into summer camp this year it devastated him.  In the past 3 years, Parker has not been in traditional school due to his medical issues and so camp is one of the very few opportunities he has to be around other kids and to have fun.  He spends way too much time in hospitals, getting procedures/tests, and in doctor offices.  One night he was in so much pain that he tried using his bio- feedback and think of his "happy place" and he thought of Boggy...but that turned into much grief.  He came and woke me in the middle of the night crying hysterically, because in that moment, at 3:00 a.m. in the morning, he realized that he was not only in overwhelming pain but grief with the thought that he wasn't going to camp this summer.

Three days later (so much has been coming in 3’s for us lately), we got a call that a spot came open and he could go to camp.  We were hesitant to let him go because he would not get back from camp until just the day prior to school starting; and he was re-entering into high school this year.  We know that camp can completely wipe him out because he uses so much energy...But we decided to send him because this is the one thing in his life that brings him complete sustaining joy.

Because Parker was in his "happy place" at camp and we knew that he was being safely looked after with the amazing medical staff on hand, my husband and I decided to take a short weekend trip to the beach, our "happy place".  We have not been alone on vacation for 5 years.  And our oldest son came to visit us on the beach each day to skim board..."his happy place".  We all experienced the JOY of camp...

We were actually a little nervous to pick Parker up from camp because we didn't know what physical condition camp would leave him, as he had to start school the next day.  We never, in all this journey, would have expected to see the "Parker" that came home that day...He came home a happy, stronger, more energized child than we have seen in 8 long years of struggle with this very mean disease.  And, because the camp schedule has an early rise-and-shine kind-of day...his sleep schedule was also now on track for school days.



And the next day, the first day of high school...the first day back in traditional school with no hospital home-bound, no more on-line classes...Parker didn't just decide to re-enter school...he decided to leave his wheelchair behind and WALK through those doors and into his new-found strength and re-boot on “being a kid”.  He did it!  And he has been doing it all week!  We know that Parker's strength and drive brought him here!  We know that our many prayers and continued hope pushed this opportunity into his path.  But what we didn't know is that Camp Boggy Creek would give us and our sweet child a gift that is beyond measure and is full of JOY for our entire family.  

The words “thank you” are not enough. Our hearts burst with appreciation far beyond what we could say with our voices.  And we are so very thankful that the Arthritis Foundation made this possible; that Paul Newman had the vision and love to start these amazing camps for children with life threatening and life altering chronic diseases; and that there are volunteers, staff, and medical professions that give of themselves so that our children may simply LIVE LIKE KIDS.  We love you dearly!
Much HOPE and LOVE for LIFE,

The Lentini Family